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Transforming Judgement of Others to Love for Self

Welcome to the "Who the Fuck is in the Mirror?" podcast, hosted by Angela Spooner, an emotional intelligence guide, trauma-informed coach, yoga instructor, and a confident, badass single mom. This episode dives into the journey of self-discovery, self-awareness, and building confidence through real-life experiences and heartfelt discussions.
Angela shares a raw and unfiltered story about a recent TikTok encounter that led her to reflect on judgment, empathy, and the importance of understanding one's coping mechanisms. She emphasizes the need to love and accept oneself, while also being mindful of how we approach and support others in their struggles.
Join Angela as she passionately discusses the significance of self-love, the challenges of personal growth, and how to transform self-doubt into empowering confidence. This episode is a powerful reminder to be real, vulnerable, and unabashedly you.

Trauma kicks self-awareness' ass, but self-awareness is still possible

Welcome to the "Who the Fuck is in the Mirror?" podcast with your host Angela Spooner, an emotional intelligence guide, trauma-informed coach, yoga instructor, and a badass single mom. This episode dives deep into understanding who you truly are beyond societal labels and expectations.
Join Angela and guest Joshua as they discuss the science behind why we often don't recognize ourselves in the mirror, especially after experiencing chronic trauma. They explore how trauma impacts brain activity, affecting our sense of self and ability to process emotions. You'll learn about the brain's "default state network" and how it plays a crucial role in overall consciousness.
Angela shares personal stories and insights, including a recent confrontation that led to a breakthrough in self-awareness. Joshua provides practical tools for managing emotional responses, emphasizing the importance of continuously building new neural pathways through mindfulness, yoga, and self-reflection.
This episode is packed with wisdom and practical advice for anyone looking to transform their self-doubt and insecurity into self-aware confidence. Tune in to discover how you can start your journey towards becoming your most authentic, confidently badass self.
Don't miss out on the exciting announcement about Angela's new Confident Queen membership, starting July 1st, offering a comprehensive package of resources to help you on your journey. Enjoy a 7-day free trial and access to live coaching sessions, yoga, mindfulness games, and much more.
Stay connected and share your thoughts on Angela's social media platforms. Your feedback is invaluable in making this podcast even more impactful. Let's embark on this transformative journey together!

Trauma said F*ck Your Sense of Self part 2

Welcome to the Who the Fuck is in the Mirror podcast with your host, Angela Spooner. Join Angela, an emotional intelligence guide, trauma-informed coach, yoga instructor, and confident badass single mom of three, as she takes you on an eye-opening journey to uncover your true self.
In this episode, Angela delves into the profound impact of trauma on our self-perception and emotional well-being. She shares her personal experiences, including a recent confrontation that triggered deep-seated emotions, to illustrate the importance of self-awareness and mindfulness in overcoming self-doubt and insecurity.
Angela emphasizes the significance of connecting with our bodies and understanding the physical sensations associated with our emotions. By becoming mindful of these sensations, we can begin to heal and transform our dysfunctional thinking into self-aware, confident badassery.
Angela also introduces exciting changes to her app, offering a new membership that provides access to her transformative content, including live coaching, yoga sessions, and mindfulness games. Tune in to discover how you can embark on a journey of self-discovery and reclaim your inner strength.
Don't miss this empowering episode that promises to help you find out who the fuck is in the mirror and embrace your true self with confidence.

Trauma said f*ck your sense of self

Welcome to the "Who the Fuck is in the Mirror?" podcast, hosted by Angela Spooner, your guide to emotional intelligence, trauma-informed coaching, and self-discovery. In this episode, Angela delves deep into Chapter 6, "Losing Your Body, Losing Yourself," exploring the profound impact of trauma on our sense of self and how we perceive our bodies.Angela begins with a thought-provoking quote from Rainer Maria Rilke, breaking it down to uncover the importance of embracing our unsolved questions and emotions. She discusses how trauma can desensitize us, leading to self-destructive behaviors and a disconnection from our true selves.The episode also introduces the concept of the default mode network, explaining its role in self-awareness and how trauma can disrupt this crucial brain function. Angela shares personal anecdotes and practical insights on how to reconnect with your body and mind, emphasizing the need for safety and self-awareness in healing from trauma.Join Angela in this enlightening journey to transform self-doubt and insecurity into self-aware, badass confidence. Don't miss out on the strategies and techniques she'll share next week to help you find a sense of safety and belonging within yourself.Remember to follow, like, comment, and share the podcast with your friends. Binge-listen and have an awesome day!

Connecting with body after trauma IS possible

Join Angela Spooner, a trauma-informed coach and yoga instructor, as she dives deep into the intricacies of self-awareness in this compelling episode of "Who the Fuck is in the Mirror." Angela is joined by her insightful guest, Josh, as they explore the profound impacts of trauma on the mind and body. Using the book "The Body Keeps the Score" as a guide, they unpack the various stages of trauma response and the significance of emotional intelligence in healing.
From personal anecdotes about parenting challenges to the importance of self-care and self-acceptance, this episode provides a raw and unfiltered look at how we can transform our insecurities and dysfunctional patterns into self-aware confidence. Whether you're a parent, a professional, or someone on a journey of self-discovery, this episode offers valuable insights and practical advice on managing trauma and fostering emotional resilience.
Don't miss out on this enlightening conversation that promises to leave you feeling inspired and empowered to take control of your mental and emotional well-being.

Unmasking Emotions with brain body awareness: reconnect after trauma

Welcome to the latest episode of "Who the Fuck is in the Mirror" podcast! Join Angela Spooner, your emotional intelligence guide and trauma-informed coach, as she dives into the intriguing connections between our body and brain. This episode explores Chapter 5 of "The Body Keeps the Score," focusing on how emotions shape our physical expressions and behaviors.

Angela delves into Darwin's observations on the physical signs of emotions and their similarities to animals. She explains how our emotions communicate through our facial and bodily movements, impacting our mental state and interactions with others. Discover the intricate dance between anger, sadness, and fear, and how these emotions manifest in our daily lives.

Angela also highlights the importance of understanding our autonomic nervous system and its role in regulating our fight, flight, and freeze responses. Learn how social support, self-awareness, and body regulation techniques like yoga and breathwork can help us rebuild our emotional resilience.

Tune in for an eye-opening journey into the science of self-awareness, and find out how you can transform your self-doubt and insecurity into badass confidence and understanding. Don't miss Angela's insights on creating a balanced and fulfilling life!

The Anatomy of Survival: Understanding Trauma's Grip on the Brain

Welcome to the "Who the Fuck is in the Mirror" podcast, hosted by Angela Spooner - an emotional intelligence guide, trauma-informed coach, yoga instructor, and badass single mom. In this episode, Angela dives deep into Chapter 4: "Running for Your Life, The Anatomy of Survival."Angela explores how trauma shapes our brain and behavior, using compelling analogies and real-life examples. From the story of a boy coping with the 9/11 tragedy to understanding the roles of the amygdala, hippocampus, and frontal lobes, this episode breaks down complex neurological processes into digestible insights.Join Angela as she discusses the science behind why trauma makes us feel "fucked up" and how it affects our responses, health, and overall sense of self. Learn about the importance of creating a safe environment for healing, and discover practical coping strategies like breathwork, meditation, and intentional movement.Don't miss this powerful journey towards transforming self-doubt and insecurity into badass confidence and self-awareness. Tune in and start reclaiming your power today!

Embracing Authenticity and Overcoming Trauma

Welcome to the "Who the Fuck is in the Mirror" podcast, hosted by Angela Spooner, your emotional intelligence guide, trauma-informed coach, yoga instructor, and confident single mom of three amazing children. This podcast delves deep into self-discovery, using books, analogies, and metaphors to help you find your true self beyond societal roles and expectations.In this episode, Angela is joined by special guest, Mr. Carpenter, a talented musician, author, and certified life coach. Together, they explore the impact of emotional abuse, the journey of overcoming deep-seated trauma, and the power of taking responsibility for one's choices.Mr. Carpenter shares his personal experiences growing up in a conservative Christian cult, the emotional and psychological challenges he faced, and how he ultimately found the strength to break free and live authentically. Angela and Mr. Carpenter discuss the importance of confronting one's past, the role of emotional intelligence in healing, and the transformative power of embracing vulnerability.Join Angela and Mr. Carpenter as they navigate the complexities of trauma, self-acceptance, and personal growth. This episode is a raw, honest, and empowering conversation that will inspire you to look in the mirror and recognize the resilient, badass version of yourself that you've always been.

Emotional Neuroscience from Trauma: it's Not Your Fault

Welcome to the 'Who the Fuck Is in the Mirror' podcast, hosted by Angela Spooner. This show is dedicated to providing clarity about our authentic selves, beyond the perceptions of others, and uncovering the confidently badass version of us that might be obscured by distractions. Using books, experiences, and analogous narratives, we delve deep into exploring the essence of who we are, shedding light on the mysterious workings of the mind and the process of self-discovery.
This engaging episode provides rich insights into Chapter 3 of the book 'The Body Keeps the Score', which involves a detailed exploration of the neuroscience revolution. It discusses instances of trauma, the brain's structures and functions, and how personal struggles and experiences shape our self-perception. By recounting emotive narratives and flashbacks from trauma victims, we gain profound insights into their behavioral patterns, leading to deeper understanding and empathy.
The episode doesn't shy away from the harsh reality of how trauma often impairs self-expression, leaving victims struggling for words and disconnecting their emotions from speech. Angela Spooner, our host, encourages listeners to understand and respect the silent cries of those around us and emphasizes the transformative power of kindness, understanding, and self-love in fostering personal growth and healing.
This episode provides a riveting exploration of personal trauma, its impacts, and the path towards healing. Spooner recounts her own journey from denial to acceptance and action and discusses the importance of recognizing and addressing psychological trauma. She also shares insights on trauma's impact on the brain and reassures listeners that their reactions are not character flaws but responses to harm, underscoring that understanding this is key to genuine healing and self-acceptance.
The episode concludes with an emphasis on the power of individual feedback in creating relevant content and an encouragement for listeners to embrace change and thereby transform their lives for the better. Join us in this journey of personal transformation that might well be the most important voyage you'll ever undertake.

WTF is up with my imbalanced chemicals: our brains are out of whack

Welcome to the transformative “Who the Fuck is in the Mirror” podcast hosted by Angela Spooner, an emotional intelligence guide, trauma-informed coach, and yoga instructor. In this episode, Angela guides you through a journey of self-discovery, encouraging you to unpack the personas moulded by societal expectations and discover your secure, authentically badass self.With a range of real-life struggles, Angela shares her personal experiences with an insightful chapter from 'The Body Keeps the Score', emphasizing the vital mind-body connection. Angela's transformative approach encourages one not simply to navigate life's intimacies and traumas but to view them as empowering experiences, pivotal in shaping our authentic selves.Fearlessly breaking down the role of neurotransmitters, Angela delves into the effects of chemicals like dopamine and endorphins on our moods, motivations, and overall wellbeing. Weaving through ADHD, insomnia, and medication's role in managing these conditions, she imparts her personal experiences, underscoring the importance of vulnerability and personal growth in the pursuit of true authenticity.This episode carries you through the healing process of trauma, urging you to redefine the narrative surrounding your experiences and empowering you to construct a life that is unapologetically yours. Are you ready to journey towards self-discovery and emotional healing? Tune in for enlightening conversations that promise to shift your perspective and empower your path to recovery.